Bochinclonny Family
Our last name is Bochinclonny. My name is just hyphenated. Haha.
We met when were high school and have been together since we were 18 years old. And, we actually did not like each other at first. We found each other annoying. Lol. Our AP literature teacher noticed this and made us partner on an assignment and we just clicked afterwards. Haha.
I knew that Abram was the one when I realized that he was only person I wanted to be around. With my childhood trauma, he became my safe space.
We have three amazing boys. Connor who is 5 and has autism. He is our little sweetheart and loves to give our hugs. He loves Spider-Man and singing. Our next one is Gavin who just turn 3. Gavin is our little dare devil and is a foodie. He loves trying new food and eating until we tell him no more. Haha. He is a buzz lightyear fanatic. The baby our the family is our Sawyer who we call soybean. He is 10 months old and just learn to crawl. He is very smiley and bashful but loves to be carried everywhere.
I love that Abram will move mountains for our family. If I tell him what I want for our family or myself? He will do whatever it takes to support me.
Abram has very ticklish feet so when he irritate me I will touch his feet so he stops. Lmao.
In regards to raising a healthy and happy family, Just take it one day at a time. There will be days where it feels like it is impossible but you do it for the other person.
Our outfits? I just googled and it said neutrals was best, lolz
We are only 2 years but we just try our best for it work.
-Terri
I met Terri in highschool. Our teacher at the time noticed our indifferences and consistently grouped us together. Eventually we’ve compromised and worked together. Till then we decided to hang out together more and join clubs together. Suddenly we’ve became inseparable. With my short temper at the time I’ve always adored her.
She always ensured everyone around was welcomed or known. She’s always able to provide an insight that helps any situation. She always reminds me of what’s important.
We have three amazing children. Connor who is 5. A brilliant young man. Gavin who is 3. An adorable little man who’s very sweet. Sawyer who’s 10 months old. He loves snacks and being cuddles when I return from work. Occasionally says dada.
I love Terri for who she strives to be. I’ve seen her encounter numerous obstacles from being a mom to a graduate and acquiring her career. I love her pursuit to help others and herself.
I have numerous pictures of Terri’s artwork. Her drawings are very adorable. For instance, she attempted drawing a guitar but from my view.. it looks like broccoli. Lol
There’s going to be various obstacles that’ll prevent you from making decisions. Sometimes it’ll feel like anything you do is not enough. Do what you can and everything will work out. Terri and the children are my number 1 priority. At the end of the day it’s always for them.
Terri bought most of my clothes. Sometimes I try to go out my norm and try something new. If she says no.. it’s definitely a no. lol
we’ve been married for 2 years. I’ve always told her I’ve felt like I’ve known her longer before we were married. During our relationship, I’ve always teased that we’ve been together for 10 years.. 15 years. Be there for your partner. Whether good times or bad. Sometimes you’ll be far from each other and you’re still making decisions for each other. Be there for your partner. That presence comes a long way cause many people come and go but the person you’re with. It means a lot. I can’t imagine 24 hours without her.
-Abram
